Based on Chuka Phillip-Jonson, a Dutchreviewing author, Nigerian males don’t have anything to supply to impartial ladies in an egalitarian society.
The author who backed his declare by sharing a feminine good friend’s expertise in Nigeria, averred that Nigerian males hate it when a lady is empowered and is not impressed by their wealth.
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“LOL. I’ve this Dutch good friend who’s combined race (half Nigerian), and visited Nigeria four years in the past, for the first time. She instructed me how the Nigerian males who requested her out, all stored attempting to get her consideration by giving her cash. She thought it was bizarre, so she at all times gave it again.
However that wasn’t what made me giggle. What made me giggle was her discovering out that aside from cash, Nigerian males don’t have anything else to supply. And he or she was tremendous critical when she mentioned that! She deduced that they weren’t clever, so most could not maintain mental conversations.
“Other than taking ladies to eating places, beer/ice cream parlours, and nightclubs, what else are Nigerian males good for?” She requested. Cos these have been the locations all of them needed to take her to. And through discussions, their opinions at all times got here from a sexist and misogynistic angle.
One other factor she discovered tremendous bizarre was how they stored inviting her to their church buildings, and providing her marriage. Considered one of them provided to marry her, if she’d conform to grow to be a housewife. They have been all perplexed to seek out that she was neither fascinated about marriage nor having youngsters
I’ve mentioned this earlier than, and I would say it once more. In an egalitarian society, the place males cannot flex on ladies with their wealth as a result of ladies have their very own cash, automobiles, homes, and so on., there’s actually nothing Nigerian males would have that these empowered and impartial ladies would need.
And I’ve seen it with my two eyes. Nigerian males hate it when a lady is empowered, and is not impressed by their wealth. It is why they cannot stand impartial ladies who do not want their cash. In a relationship with such ladies, they would not know what to do with themselves.
Additionally, Nigerian males hate it when a lady does not rely on them for (monetary) assist. Being a lady’s supplier provides them energy over mentioned girl. So when a lady turns into impartial, they lose that energy. Plus, additionally they like to boast about how they maintain their ladies”.